R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Why Respect and Honor Matter (and How to Live It Out)
Let’s face it: words like respect and honor might sound old-fashioned or reserved for strict classroom rules. But what if I told you that these two qualities are superpowers that can change your relationships, your reputation, and even your future? Whether it’s your parents, friends, teachers, or God, understanding and practicing respect and honor isn’t about following boring rules—it’s about learning to live with strength, purpose, and integrity.
So let’s break it down: What are respect and honor, why do they matter, and how can you live them out every day?
What Does It Mean to Respect and Honor?
Respect is about how you treat others. It’s recognizing someone’s value and showing that you care about them through your words, attitude, and actions. It could be as simple as listening when someone talks or treating others the way you want to be treated.
Honor goes even deeper. Honor is about how you view others. It’s seeing people the way God sees them—as valuable, worthy, and made in His image (Genesis 1:27). Honor says, “You matter, and I will treat you like you do.”
Why Do Respect and Honor Matter?
They Strengthen Your Relationships. When you respect others—your friends, parents, teachers, and even strangers—you build trust. People are more likely to respect you back, listen to you, and want to be around you.
They Shape Your Character. Practicing respect and honor shapes who you are. It builds integrity and sets you apart. Proverbs 22:1 says, “A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches.” When you honor others, you build a reputation of someone who is trustworthy and kind.
They Reflect Your Relationship with God. As Christians, we are called to honor God and others. Romans 12:10 says, “Outdo one another in showing honor.” When you choose to live a life of respect, you reflect the heart of God to the people around you.
How to Live Out Respect and Honor
Start at Home. Your family is the first place where you learn respect and honor. How you talk to your parents and siblings matters. Even when it’s tough, show kindness, patience, and gratitude. Ephesians 6:2 says, “Honor your father and mother”—this is the first commandment with a promise!
Watch Your Words. Your words are powerful. Do they build people up or tear them down? Speak encouragement to your friends, respect your teachers, and avoid gossip or disrespectful talk. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.”
Show Respect Through Actions.
Listen when someone is talking.
Follow through on commitments.
Be punctual (show up when you say you will).
Show kindness to people who can’t do anything for you.
Honor God First. When you choose to honor God—by reading His Word, praying, and living with integrity—it becomes easier to honor others. Your relationship with God sets the foundation for how you treat the people in your life.
A Real-Life Challenge: This week, I challenge you to choose one specific way to show respect or honor to someone. It could be:
Writing a thank-you note to a parent, teacher, or coach.
Encouraging a friend who’s struggling.
Apologizing if you disrespected someone.
Simply listening more instead of talking.
Small actions of honor and respect can make a huge difference in someone’s day—and in your own heart.
Closing Thought: Respect and honor aren’t about being perfect or pretending to have it all together. It’s about choosing to treat people with love, seeing their value, and living in a way that points others to Jesus. Remember, when you honor others, you honor God.
So, how will you use your superpower of respect and honor this week? You’ve got this!
Scripture for Reflection: “Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.” (Romans 12:10)